FILM REVIEW: What’s Eating Ralphie May?

Posted by Larry Gleeson

Cat Rhinehart’s documentary, What’s Eating Ralphie May?, made its world premiere at the 50th Anniversary of the Nashville Film Festival. “I thought Nashville’s 50th was the perfect time and place to premiere. Ralphie loved Nashville – and he talks about it in the film. I could tell the audience felt that affinity – so I couldn’t imagine a better fit. Ralphie would have been proud,” said Rhinehart.

Ralphie May was an American stand-up comedian known for his extensive touring and television comedy specials. Ralphie appeared to be living the American Dream with a beautiful wife, Lahna Turner, and two perfect children. May suffered from obesity. He loved making people laugh. And, people loved Ralphie in return.

Rhinehart began documenting May as he set out to lose weight. He asked his lovely wife, Lahna, to help him. Turner could see a bright future with a successful documentary and possibly a book deal for Ralphie. After losing 300 pounds from a starting point of 800 pounds, Ralphie plateaued. Unable to get through, he turned to pain medicine to alleviate his suffering. He decided not to have weight loss surgery.

After Ralphie lands a year-long contract to perform in Las Vegas, tensions become unbearable. Lahna decides to focus on herself. One night after a show Ralphie comes back to his room and falls smashing his skull on a table on the way down. Shocked and bewildered, Turner and Rhinehart dedicate the footage they had and decided to honor Ralphie with What’s Eating Ralphie May?

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Utilizing traditional documentary filmmaking techniques, including archival footage, direct interviews and still photographs, Rhinehart traces Ralphie’s early life including his difficult childhood in Arkansas, his fascination with comedian Sam Kinison, his runner-up finish debacle in Jay Mohr’s Last Comic Standing in 2003 and documents his marital strife.

Despite being the runner-up on Last Comic Standing, Ralphie embarked on the late night television circuit making appearances on Tonight Show with Jay Leno and the Wayne Brady Show. Ralphie continued to hone his comedic repertoire as the only white comedian on the Black Comedy Show which also featured Rodman, Vince Morris and Mo’Nique. Several comedy albums followed along with Netflix specials and finally the big break – a year long, Las Vegas gig at Harrah’s Casino.

Meanwhile, Lahna resumes her career full-time and makes an appearance on a radio talk show where the host was a big fan of Ralphie’s. The shock jock berated Lahna for leaving Ralphie and not helping him lose weight. Ralphie seemed to grow bitter lamenting all Lahna needed to do was “f*%ck me, feed me, put me to bed and I’ll wake up happy.” Ah….if life were only that simple.

Following Ralphie’s untimely death, Rhinehart decided to interview Ralphie and Lahna’s daughter for the film. When asked if she wanted to say anything about her dad, she replied, “I love my dad and hope he feels better now that he’s out of that body.” Lahna continues to perform her stand-up comedy.

What’s Eating Ralphie May? is more than direct cinema. It’s an important film documenting and illuminating issues about marital relationships and obesity, and how people deal with them. Ralphie’s New York Times obituary read that he died of hypertensive cardiovascular disease. No mention was made of Ralphie suffering from obesity, a complex disease involving an excessive amount of body fat. Ralphie confesssed to Lahna he didn’t want to be fat. Lahna wanted Ralphie to get healthy.

Unfortunately, the film never quite answers the question of what caused Ralphie’s addiction to food. Instead, it portrays Lahna as a victim (which she denies vociferously) unable to do for Ralphie what he couldn’t do for himself. Ralphie opted to continue working, doing what he loved most, making people laugh, despite – or maybe in spite of – his unhealthy obesity.

Highly recommended film.




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